Couples whose marriages are in trouble face many difficult decisions,
all of which have the potential for serious consequences. Some of these
may be:
Is this marriage worth saving?
Will the children be harmed?
What will be the ramifications of our divorce?
How deeply will it alter our life?
You may also feel:
Ambivalent about ending the relationship
You are the most hurt, misunderstood, damaged, or least powerful person in the relationship
Your partner is using the myriad of divorce counterplays as a way to stay married
Intimidated by your partner in addressing and resolving complex and difficult issues
We would have a great divorce if it weren't for the other party
The divorce is your last chance to destroy the other party
We can show you a clearer picture of what lies ahead for you, and how you
need to prepare for this crucial decision.
(Note: Survey results are not saved as you go from section to section.
As you go through the survey you may want to print your results for review
by a CCD Professional.)
Part I: Is Divorce the Right Path?
The first six questions will help you determine if divorce is the right
path now. Please click the box next to each statement you can respond to
with yes:
Do you still love each other?
Do you still have the desire to make the relationship work?
Are you willing to take responsibility for the relationship not working?
Do you feel that divorce is the wrong solution?
Do you consider divorce to be a violation of
your spiritual beliefs?
Are you unable to sustain the thought "I love
you but I no longer want to be married to you?"
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